Essential Foreplay Tips for Great Sex

Foreplay: Feels Great and Works Even Better

An Integral Part of Sex

Foreplay was once regarded as nothing more than a tedious means to an ecstatic end. Nothing could be further from the truth. Foreplay is an integral part of any sexual union and is even better if it is crazy fun. It intensifies a couple's intimacy and sharpens their pleasure in surprising doses.

Foreplay & Seduction

For women, foreplay triggers a process where the uterus contracts to prepare for penetration. This is known as vaginal tenting, and without it, sex could be very uncomfortable. In other words, indulging in Foreplay tricks gives the female body time to become aroused and well-lubricated – the first external sign that she is ready for sex.

For men, on the other hand, it is still largely assumed that foreplay is unnecessary. While this may be true in many cases, men's emotions are often more delicate than we think - men get a high from being wanted and desired just the same as women do.

Building intimacy and trust with foreplay decreases performance pressure on men and so eradicates stage fright and feelings of inadequacy. Also, the anticipation caused by foreplay makes him harder and involves his emotions more deeply in their eventual love-making. Which, therefore, results in a more beautiful union for both parties.

Thankfully, many people now agree - foreplay is essential to prepare the body for sex and add value to a relationship. 

Foreplay Tips & Tricks for Starters

Lubricants are the perfect way to prepare your lady's body for penetration. All our personal sex lubricants are top-quality and excellent at exciting the ladies whilst being completely body-safe. Did you know they come in different flavours and effects to get your juices deliciously jumping?

The flavours are also a hit with those not into oral sex - a little Pina Colada trail has tremendous powers of persuasion! And, even if you think lubes are unnecessary, they are a guaranteed way to introduce new sensations. 

Let him watch as you touch and explore yourself. Give him a candid lesson on how you like to be pleasured or what exciting sex toys you want to introduce into the mix. A vibrator or orgasm cream, for instance, works like magic, and you can use them both for external and internal stimulation. Or tickle his testicles with the tip of a vibe and watch his completely wild reaction!

Foreplay is meant to be fun, not hard work. Use kissable erotic lip gloss to stimulate his erection orally. Tease and titillate his masculinity until you both reap the rewards.

Foreplay doesn't always need to begin physically. The brain is one of the largest sex organs in the body, so tease it too - send your lover a trail of love notes, text them a tempting offer or email an erotic photo. By the time you reach each other, your imaginations will be so wet with anticipation that you won't need actual, physical foreplay. Adult games and books are also great for getting your mind working and you in the mood. 

Sometimes, taking it super slowly gets you both itching for more. Tantric sex is ideal for SLOW. It involves hours, sometimes days, of just looking at, touching and stroking each other before moving forward. However, you don't have to take 48 hours to get lucky - sometimes, just taking an extra ten minutes to caress and fondle your partner reaps fantastic rewards.

Should you need any more prompts, see our blog "Erotic Games for Friskier Foreplay", where you will find many other naughty ways to be sassy in your sex. Go have a great time!