Daily life can be stressful, and stress is pretty often the number one killer of people's love lives and overall relationships. You know the old saying: "The couple that plays together stays together." It is so true! Any happy couple will tell you it's the little things that keep their relationship going, especially adding a smack of friskiness to their bedroom to keep their love lives buzzing.
First, let us say that sex does not always have to be serious. Yes, many times, the intensity of our love for our 'others' naturally makes our unions serious, but we can also engage in sex to have FUN. We all know fun is physically and mentally fantastic because it relaxes us and releases dopamine and other feel-good chemicals to keep our moods upbeat. Sex is also said to cure headaches, exercise our bodies and relieve stress - way to go!
In other words, it is entirely OK and beneficial (and often prescribed) to love sex. So, let us get you going with some of our Foreplay Tips and suggestions.
The couple that plays together stays together
Sexy Games & Other Ideas
- Sometimes, erotic games are just the ticket. Even ones as mild as board games or doing a sexy little jig as you undress for your partner. If you don’t have games, strip poker will do. A game is always a great ice-breaker and merriment-maker.
- Fantasy dress-up. There’s nothing like a little make-believe to electrify the bedroom. The wilder and sillier, the better. Strip off your inhibitions with a cheeky costume and act your way into a whole new world of make-believe.
- Promote sensual touch. Massage candles are the top favourite for sexy stroking and teasing. The warm glow and soft perfumes stir up your sexual appetite, and the melted waxes are divine on your skin. Our candles are body-safe and just perfect for those breathtaking caresses.
- Dare to liven up your play time with a sexy, kissable lip gloss. Doodle seductive trails across your lover's skin and gently massage it with your mouth, taking them to deep-breathing bliss.
- In the same way, be super frisky and bring on the chocolate body paint. Never a failure, edible body paint is a famous Maker of Mischief in the bedroom. It's easy to apply, delicious to eat, and feels sensational when your partner licks it off you. Besides - you won't mind cleaning up your mess!
- Or what about smearing on a dollop of flavoured, tingling or warming lube for more friskiness. Take your pick and see the imp in you come out.
- Be unpredictable. Do something spontaneous and outrageous. Ladies - greet him at the door in nothing but an apron, or Gents - jump in unexpectedly with her in the bath - and make it a bubbly one!
We're sure you don't need any more encouragement. Remember, the goal is Fun, so let your imagination run free, act like teenagers and have an extravaganza!