Find The Perfect Beginner Sex Toy
With Our Sex Toy Tips
You’re brand new to this idea of using sex toys? Or you have thought about it and even tried some everyday household items to get you giddy? While fruit 'n veg might work for some, it is not the most sensible way to go. We thought, therefore, it would be helpful to share some info about a safer, conventional, and more hygienic route to follow if you're interested in introducing some bedroom knick-knacks.
First of all, did you know sex toys are made with different materials? Silicone, rubber, glass, wood, steel, etc. If you have any allergies, be sure to pick out your toy material from the start.
Secondly, did you know that these materials are either porous or non-porous? Porous means the material has millions of minuscule holes, requiring more diligent attention when cleaning them. We assume you have now worked out what non-porous means?
Thirdly, it is always 110% advisable to use a lubricant when using a sex toy. Life (sex) becomes a whole lot smoother and a whole lot easier when you use a lube. Again, there are different types of personal lubricants, so read carefully and choose one compatible with you and your toy. NB: Silicone toys and silicone-based lubes are not a good mix.
Now that you have whittled the three essential criteria down, only buy superior, body-safe products. It is your precious body you are dealing with, and you only have one of them, so look after it! And, yes, you are safe with Matilda's as we only deal in top-grade products, as you will see in our Sex Toys for Beginners Guide.
You can also choose an internal (penetrating) toy or an external (stimulating) one. If you're getting adventurous with a partner, we have a lovely range of Sex Toys for Couples for you to peep at.
For the guys, there’s a wide range of toys for solo and partner play. Sex Toys for Men is a handy page to guide you. Start with what you like, but perhaps be bold and step out of your comfort zone. PS: Don't forget to include your partner and share your likes and aims so you're both on the same page for this next chapter.
The Boss Stub Dildo by Fun Factory
Dildos are inexpensive, versatile and always handy. Choose a length that gives you a bit to hold on to. Fun Factory's Stub Dildos stand up easily and suction to smooth surfaces. The flat base also makes them friendly for anal play. We love the Boss for its classic shape and smooth silicone finish.
Mona 2 G-Spot Vibrator by Lelo
Loved by reviewers, the Mona 2 is a classic vibrator. G-spot vibrators are subtly curved to target your G-spot with such accuracy that the delicious shivers wind you up into a gasping climax...
Aquaglide Personal Lubricant
A good lubricant is an essential part of bedroom bliss. If you're using silicone toys, you'll want to ensure you have a quality water-based lubricant. Aquaglide is long-lasting, body-safe and silicone-friendly - just what the doctor ordered!
Fleshlight Pink Lady Original
Fleshlight is one of the best-known brands of sex toys for guys, and their quality is undisputed. The Fleshlight Pink Lady Original was the first design and is still the most popular in this range. These masturbators are wonderful for guys who want to up their stamina or just to add something significant to their toy repertoire.
Je Joue Mio Vibrating Cock Ring
Even the most basic cock ring can bring fun to the bedroom. With a vibrating duo model, like the Je Joue Mio, the pleasure is both of yours! It can be worn to stimulate the testicles, perineum or clitoris, depending on the person and position. Plus, it can function as a bullet vibrator during foreplay before you wear it.
Lelo Smart Wand
Body massagers and wands are two other forms of perfect bedroom pals for gals. They can be innocently used on aching muscles at the end of a long day or to give you a great erotic massage. Their real trick, however, is producing those vibrations that end in mind-blowing orgasms. Before using any wand, run it over different parts of your body to feel what this little pal can do, and then hold it gently against your vulva to get the party started.
WeVibe Sync
Couples' toys are becoming increasingly streamlined, and the We-Vibe Sync, with its remote control and phone app, is dinkum new-generation stuff. That doesn't make it hard to use, though—it's very comfortable, can be worn during intercourse, and effortlessly dishes up delicious vibrations for both partners.
Last but not least - remember hygiene and to keep your sex toys clean. Always read the care instructions for your toys, and use suitable sex toy cleaning products to safeguard your and your partner's health and safety and that of your toys.
If you are still confused about what kind of toy to choose, you can always ask for help—we have a team of Happy Helpers ready to receive your email, call or live chat to help you figure it out. https://www.matildas.co.za/pages/contact-us
