Bringing Sex Toys Into Your Bedroom

Introducing Sex Toys Into Your Bedroom

As we all know, open communication between couples is vital for lasting relationships, so introducing adult toys into the bedroom should be cleared well in advance. Here, we discuss how to do this positively with openness and mutual agreement.

Introducing Sex Toys into Your Bedroom

Add More Adventure to Your Sex Life 

Is it time to bring in the sex toys? The two of you had been having crazy sex for some time, and your chemistry was dynamic. Then, somehow, your love life lost its glow. Don't worry - this is not unusual, and we suggest you read on to help you bring back the zing in your sex life.

Our day-to-day humdrum can become so demanding that it invades all other areas of our lives, especially intimacy. After gobbling up most of our waking hours, it leaves us little time for each other or anything else, for that matter. This is why making time for each other and dialogue is crucial, especially if you want to broach the subject of adult toys in your bedroom.

Stats show that couples who use sex toys have solid relationships with each other - cemented by open Communication, Trust, and Love - a perfect platform for the trustful use of toys! Contrary to what some people may think, sex toys are great positive tools for couples to amp up their sex lives. This explains why there are so many couples out there whose cupboards are bursting with exciting little bedroom buddies!

So, talk, set boundaries, and agree on what you want upfront. Make it honest, candid, and fun - you will love the results.

Why Some Couples Need Sex Toys

Stats also show that couples who use adult toys perform better underneath the covers.

Teasing a woman's clitoris with a clitoral vibrator during oral sex will give her an orgasm she won't forget. And the same can be said for a man - teasing his butt with anal toys or his testicles with the same vibrator during oral sex will leave him begging for more.

Extended Duration with Sex Toys

We know that women are lucky enough to have multiple orgasms in a single session. Men, unfortunately, are not. Hence, when you (Sir) have reached your climax and your penis bows out too soon, you need to grab your reliable buddy and keep your woman happy till the end of her journey. FYI: there is absolutely no law against allowing your lady to reach orgasm with a sex toy first, and then you slide in for your just desserts.

So, How Do We Go About This Sex Toy Business?

We suggest you start with a little gadget you can share - cock rings, clitoral massagers or vibrators all do the job, and perhaps a pair of handcuffs for added mischief. Massage oils, orgasm creams and a choice of stimulating lubricants also play a big part in turning up the sexual tempo. Ma'am, listen to your man; if he is adventurous and wants to try some male toys, get them - anal beads, butt plugs, vibrating cock rings - whichever light up his eyes. It really is an open book. (We have to add a little reminder here: be sure to use lubes that are compatible with the material of your toys.)  

Want to stun your lover? Go electric and hi-tech! We have some that are electric, some battery-operated, and still others that are devilishly naughty with phone apps. 

Once done with exploring the hi-tech options, you might like to cast your eyes on Matilda's fab range of sex toys for couples to make you even more bright-eyed and bushy-tailed.

By the end of your inspections, we feel sure you'll agree - introducing sex toys into your bedroom might be the best thing since sliced bread!